MARRIAGE AND THE FAMILY

HD 262      3 credit hours

Dr. Nick Stinnett                212 HES Design House

Office Hours: 12:00 – 1:00 MW; or by appointment

348 – 4528; 348 – 5873 (to leave message with Lynn Thomas, Program Assistant); 310 – 1253 (cell – very important calls only, please);  

nstinne1@ches.ua.edu       In e-mails or phone messages please indicate which class you’re in – HD 262.001  (11am)  or HD 262.002 (1pm).

Course Description

This is a course devoted to the study of modern marriage and family relations.  A combination of sociological and psychological perspectives is used.  Consideration is given to courtship, mate selection, marriage, marital adjustment, family finance, and other related topics.

Course Objectives

·         To understand social forces and social change and their influence on marriage and family   relationships - past, present, and future.

·         To understand current courtship patterns and how they influence mate selection and contribute to preparation for marriage.

·         To understand laws and social regulations governing marriage, family relations and divorce.

·         To understand communication and other factors influencing marital adjustment, role-patterns, decision-making, and conflict resolution.

·         To understand the principles of economics and how these principles can be applied to financial adjustment and financial practices in the family.

·         To understand the reproductive process, decision-making about whether to or not to become parents and the influences of children on marriage.

Text and Materials  

Stinnett, Nick & Stinnett, Nancy. (2006).  Relationships in Marriage and The Family, 5th edition. Pearson Education Publishing.    Be sure you get a new 5th edition.  Do NOT buy a used text – the 5th edition contains workbook-type pages that you need for assignments.

You will also need a stapler to secure assignments and a pack of 4x6 index cards for class participation/activities/attendance.  You will likely want a notebook for taking class notes and making notes as you read.

 

 

Assignments and Grading

Students are expected to read the assignments in the text and any other reading assignments given in class.

Much of the learning experience is dependent on the exchange of information, thinking, and experiences coming from all class members.  Each class member should feel a responsibility to participate actively in class discussions and activities using personal experience, textbook material, and supplementary readings as resources. 

Class attendance is expected and required. More than FIVE absences are considered excessive. Grades will be reduced (3 points for each absence) if the number exceeds 5 absences.  This does not mean that you may have five absences over and above any excused absences.  Excused absences are included in the total of 5.  Those who have five absences will receive no consideration for “rounding up” if their grade ends up being a borderline one.  Anyone absent more than 15 times will receive a grade of F regardless of the reasons for the absences.

There will be four (4) tests: they are indicated on the schedule.  The fourth will be given according to the final exam schedule.  It will not be a comprehensive final.  Each test will be worth 100 points.  They will be multiple-choice, true-false, short answer, etc.  No make-up exams will be given.  If you miss an exam for an excused absence, you will take a comprehensive final exam.   Bring your student ID, two # 2 pencils and an eraser to the tests.  Place all bags, books, notebooks, and telephones under your desk.  Be sure to go to the bathroom BEFORE the test begins.  Anyone arriving late (especially if someone has already finished the test) may not be allowed to take the test. 

Students will complete assigned questions in the video-based Marriage and Family Student Learning Guide (See the CD and the Student Learning Guide {SLG} included within your textbook).  See the class schedule for specific assignments.  For each assigned video clip, you should answer the “Observation Questions” (you may omit the “Next Step” question).  Space is provided in the Student Learning Guide for your answers; please write clearly.  The SLG pages are perforated to allow you to tear them out.  Please staple them and be sure your name is on them.  They are due at the beginning of class on the day they appear on the schedule.  Worth 102 points (6 points each). Any turned in after class or later FOR ANY REASON, unstapled, or not on SLG pages will lose points as follows:  after class/day of class –1; next day –2; second day – 4; not stapled/not on SLG pages –3 ; no name = no credit (I am not psychic). Bring any late assignments to the marked box outside my office door.

Academic Conduct

Academic misconduct includes all acts of dishonesty in any academic or related matter and knowing or intentional help, attempt to help or conspiracy to help, another student commit an act of academic dishonesty.  Academic dishonesty includes, but is not limited to cheating, plagiarism, fabrication of information, and misrepresentation.  The UA Code of Academic Conduct and Academic Misconduct Disciplinary Procedures will be followed in the event that academic misconduct occurs.  Students should refer to the UA Student Affairs Handbook.

Disability Services and Access

The University is committed to providing equal educational access to University students with disabilities.  The Office of Disability Services administers accommodations and support options that are tailored to documented individual needs.  It is the student’s responsibility to make known his or her needs for academic adjustments, auxiliary aids, or services.  To request disability accommodations, please contact the Office of Disability  Services, 133B Martha Parham East (348 – 4285).  After initial arrangements are made with that office, please make an appointment with me as soon as possible to discuss any course accommodations that may be necessary.

 


Class Schedule and Required Readings (Subject to change)

August             22        Introduction

                        24        Theories of Family Relationships    Chapter 1  

                       

                        27        Intimacy

                        29        Changes in the Family

            Module 5; Video Clip 14: “Death of the Family Dinner; Working at                               Home”

                        31        Stress 

   

September        03        Labor  Day

05        Strong Families

07        Mate Selection    Chapter 2

 

10        Mate Selection

            Module 3; Video Clip 4: “Partner Selection”

12        Love

                        14        Compatibility

 

                        17        Marriage  Chapter 3

                                    Module 3; Video Clip 5: “Two Weddings”

                        19        Types of Marriage Relationships

21        TEST # 1

 

                        24        Marriage Success   Chapter 4

                        26        Marriage Success

                        28        Gender Differences  Chapter 5

            Module 1; Video Clip 1: “Significance of Gender”

 

 October          01        Gender Differences

                                    Module 1; Video Clip 2: “The Wage Gap”

                        03        Communication  Chapter 6

                        05        Communication

                                    Module 3; Video Clip 7: “Communication in Intimate Relationships”

 

08        Psychological Games  Chapter 7

                        10        Conflict  Chapter 8

                        12        Mid-Semester Break (classes dismissed)

 

 

 

 

 

15        Conflict 

                                    Module 3; Video Clip 6: “Power and Decision-Making in Intimate                                              Relationships”

                        17        Marital Violence 

                                    Module 7; Video Clip 18: “The Battered Wife Amnesty”

19        TEST # 2

 

                        22        Sexual Relationships  Chapter 9

                                    Module 2; Video Clip 3: “Sexuality”

                        24        Sexual Relationships  

                                    Module 7; Video Clip 19: “Date Rape Drug”

                        26        Family Planning     Chapter 10

 

                        29        Family Planning     

                                    Module 4; Video Clip 13: “Adoption”

                        31        Pregnancy  Chapter 11

            Module 4; Video Clip 8: “Childbirth”

November        02        Pregnancy

  

05        Pregnancy

07        TEST # 3        

                        09        Relationships with Relatives  Chapter 14

 

                        12        Relationships with Relatives

            14        Parent-Child Relationships  Chapter 12

                        Module 4; Video Clip 12: “Parenting”

                        16        Parent-Child Relationships

                                    Module 4; Video Clip 11: “New Dads”

 

                        19        Parent-Child Relationships 

                                    Module 7; Video Clip 17: “Sexual Abuse of Children”

                        21        Thanksgiving

                        23        Thanksgiving

                       

                        26        Family Financial Management  Chapter 13                                                                        

                        28        Family Financial Management

                        30        Family Financial Management

 

December        03        Divorce and Remarriage  Chapter 16

            Module 6; Video Clip 15: “Separation and Divorce”

                        05        Divorce and Remarriage

                                    Module 6; Video Clip 16: “Remarriage and Blended Families”

                   07        Divorce and Remarriage

 

 

December       13 (Thurs)       TEST # 4     11:30am – 2:00 (MWF  1pm class – Section 002)

                        10 (Mon)TEST # 4     8:00 – 10:30am  (MWF  11am class – Section 001)